Saturday 16 June 2012

Make it right again!


We meet people,greet people. Some become dearest ,some become friends,a few turn out to be our rivals. Some more like a family to us.But instead of moving on,we want a certain time of our lives to return. We always want something more than we get,something more from this life. An opportunity to take a few decisions again.To react in a way we should not have. A "TIME MACHINE " maybe..

Words unsaid, things undone , dreams unfilled , time wasted,aims uncompleted,promises broken and many REGRETS !


We all at some point in life are being imprudent actually, thinking about things that are not even likely to happen..  We always want things to go our way,and when they don’t we instead of trying harder give up !
No no,im not writing about taking the right decisions or career planning nor I am talking about things we should do to avoid risks in life- The unexpected failure ..  
Today,im writing about the regrets in life,that remain in our hearts always..
The one’s we really wish to erase out of ourlives, the ones that are really sickening..
The things we shouldn’t have done. Or maybe the things we should have done but we didn’t.

 They say,the saddest summary of life contains three words,could have,might have and should have.
Basically we live in a world ruled by us,by us all collectively . We see people taking benefit of us and this is because we take advantage of others.. in one way or the other,might not on purpose but still,we do it..  unjust conducts with others,which we donot really realize on the right time.This is US who create problems for others. This seems to be ok,as we’ve already trained ourselves to accept this way of being. Not caring about meaning and hidden lesson,not about the feeling of others, how cruelly we do things to others.  And regret later on.. its actually is of no use.. what’s the use of sympathy and clemency  when we actually make someone’s life worse thn death?
Yes,its us who do this.I repeat US !

we all have our preferences, we do favoritisms.. give advantages to the ones we like..And we really can’t help it because this is what a man is supposed to be doing .WE ALL MAKE BLUNDERS, and to err is human right?
But why do we regret things later? My opinion might fluctuate from others,but we really cant go back in the past and make things go our way.. make things go right. we don’t have a replay button afterall..
And we have to live with what we did and what people did to us. And they still do. There is no use of regretting things forever and ever. Besides,its something which at some point in life we assumed to be right,to be the best decision possibly. The world is a comedy to those who think,a tragedy to those who feel. Sorrows are like babies,they grow bigger with nursing.

Depressions ,suicides ,anxiety, frustrations and all the social problems. Aren’t they a prove that now we should be supportive , have a bigger heart,live our lives and let others live theirs,forgive others,stops creating issues out of small things,make life easier and simpler? THE SIMPLER THE BETTER , NO ?
There is more to life than problems,crises,dilemmas and difficulties..
And forgivness is not something we do for others,its something we do for ourselves to move on J
Life is too short for all these sorrows,disapointments,worries,cries and pains.
Don’t yield to misfortune but meet them with fortitude .
These REGRETS are merely a cause of depression,nobody else can ever understand our feelings.
Its useless to think about things that could have happend. Just forget the past and live in the present .
Besides all this, YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE J
Love ! J

13 comments:

  1. You really know how to write! Woah this was amazing! :)
    I sometimes wish that I could just go back in time and change things...but then after all, mistakes are a part of life and maybe everything is meant to go the way they go..

    Kisses, Meri
    maybe you can check out my fashion blog? :)
    merisocean.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you so much meri :D :D..
      We all do have some regrets,a few desires that never came true..
      There are certain decisions in life that are once and for all .. its just we never understand this :)..


      I'll definity visit your blog :D

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  2. I like the way you think about things.. how you compare sorrows to a babies.. "They grow bigger with nursing." In other words, if we stop nursing those sorrows and those dilemmas then our problems wont get too big or out of hand.. Lovely post and I'm now following you by the way! Thank you so much for stopping by and reading my blog! Hope to be hearing more from you soon!

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    1. Thank you so much.
      It is true i believe,sorrows really grow bigger by nursing in other words the more we start feeling those problems the more they start getting on our nerves .
      Thanks alot.
      Im really impressed from your blog,and i want to know what happened next in that story. write its part 2 please !! ^^

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  3. I try to have no regrets! It can be hard though. Right now I'm pretty happy with where I am and I try to let those regrets go.
    I tried to follow you but blogger is being weird and wont let me. I'll try again later!

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    1. Yes.it is hard but they say "try and try until you get success,yes? :D"
      Thanks,i guess it worked now. i can see you in my followers list ^^

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  4. If only we weren't bound by time.

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    1. yes,but sometimes its just we think alot about something and we don't want to get over it. Bad for our own selves actually ! :)

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  5. Thank you so much for the comment, I agree with you, We only live once, Would you like to follow each other? http://missbohofashionblog.blogspot.com.es/

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  6. so true..as we go through life regrets will always be part of it....but lets not dwell on what ifs ....profound thoughts..keep it up.

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